@@ -243,7 +243,7 @@ }
 	return true
 }
 
-func savexonk(x *Honk) {
+func savexonk(user *WhatAbout, x *Honk) {
 	if x.What == "eradicate" {
 		log.Printf("eradicating %s by %s", x.RID, x.Honker)
 		_, err := stmtDeleteHonk.Exec(x.RID, x.Honker)
@@ -254,7 +254,12 @@ return
 	}
 	dt := x.Date.UTC().Format(dbtimeformat)
 	aud := strings.Join(x.Audience, " ")
-	res, err := stmtSaveHonk.Exec(x.UserID, x.What, x.Honker, x.XID, x.RID, dt, x.URL, aud, x.Noise, x.Convoy)
+	whofore := 0
+	if strings.Contains(aud, user.URL) {
+		whofore = 1
+	}
+	res, err := stmtSaveHonk.Exec(x.UserID, x.What, x.Honker, x.XID, x.RID, dt, x.URL, aud,
+		x.Noise, x.Convoy, whofore)
 	if err != nil {
 		log.Printf("err saving xonk: %s", err)
 		return
@@ -347,7 +352,7 @@ for _, item := range items {
 				xonk := xonkxonk(item)
 				if xonk != nil && needxonk(user, xonk) {
 					xonk.UserID = user.ID
-					savexonk(xonk)
+					savexonk(user, xonk)
 				}
 			}
 		}

@@ -109,7 +109,11 @@ templinfo := getInfo(r)
 	u := GetUserInfo(r)
 	var honks []*Honk
 	if u != nil {
-		honks = gethonksforuser(u.UserID)
+		if r.URL.Path == "/atme" {
+			honks = gethonksforme(u.UserID)
+		} else {
+			honks = gethonksforuser(u.UserID)
+		}
 		templinfo["HonkCSRF"] = GetCSRF("honkhonk", r)
 	} else {
 		honks = gethonks()
@@ -354,7 +358,7 @@ default:
 		xonk := xonkxonk(j)
 		if xonk != nil && needxonk(user, xonk) {
 			xonk.UserID = user.ID
-			savexonk(xonk)
+			savexonk(user, xonk)
 		}
 	}
 }
@@ -596,6 +600,11 @@ dt := time.Now().UTC().Add(-2 * 24 * time.Hour)
 	rows, err := stmtHonksForUser.Query(userid, dt.Format(dbtimeformat), userid)
 	return getsomehonks(rows, err)
 }
+func gethonksforme(userid int64) []*Honk {
+	dt := time.Now().UTC().Add(-2 * 24 * time.Hour)
+	rows, err := stmtHonksForMe.Query(userid, dt.Format(dbtimeformat), userid)
+	return getsomehonks(rows, err)
+}
 func gethonksbyhonker(userid int64, honker string) []*Honk {
 	rows, err := stmtHonksByHonker.Query(userid, honker)
 	return getsomehonks(rows, err)
@@ -687,9 +696,15 @@ Donks:    xonk.Donks,
 		Audience: oneofakind(prepend(thewholeworld, xonk.Audience)),
 	}
 
+	user, _ := butwhatabout(userinfo.Username)
+
 	aud := strings.Join(bonk.Audience, " ")
+	whofore := 0
+	if strings.Contains(aud, user.URL) {
+		whofore = 1
+	}
 	res, err := stmtSaveHonk.Exec(userinfo.UserID, "bonk", "", xid, "",
-		dt.Format(dbtimeformat), "", aud, bonk.Noise, bonk.Convoy)
+		dt.Format(dbtimeformat), "", aud, bonk.Noise, bonk.Convoy, whofore)
 	if err != nil {
 		log.Printf("error saving bonk: %s", err)
 		return
@@ -702,8 +717,6 @@ log.Printf("err saving donk: %s", err)
 			return
 		}
 	}
-
-	user, _ := butwhatabout(userinfo.Username)
 
 	go honkworldwide(user, &bonk)
 
@@ -827,9 +840,15 @@ honk.Donks = append(honk.Donks, donk)
 		}
 	}
 
+	user, _ := butwhatabout(userinfo.Username)
+
 	aud := strings.Join(honk.Audience, " ")
+	whofore := 0
+	if strings.Contains(aud, user.URL) {
+		whofore = 1
+	}
 	res, err := stmtSaveHonk.Exec(userinfo.UserID, what, "", xid, rid,
-		dt.Format(dbtimeformat), "", aud, noise, convoy)
+		dt.Format(dbtimeformat), "", aud, noise, convoy, whofore)
 	if err != nil {
 		log.Printf("error saving honk: %s", err)
 		return
@@ -842,8 +861,6 @@ log.Printf("err saving donk: %s", err)
 			return
 		}
 	}
-
-	user, _ := butwhatabout(userinfo.Username)
 
 	go honkworldwide(user, &honk)
 
@@ -1015,6 +1032,7 @@ posters := mux.Methods("POST").Subrouter()
 	getters := mux.Methods("GET").Subrouter()
 
 	getters.HandleFunc("/", homepage)
+	getters.Handle("/atme", LoginRequired(http.HandlerFunc(homepage)))
 	getters.HandleFunc("/rss", showrss)
 	getters.HandleFunc("/u/{name:[[:alnum:]]+}", viewuser)
 	getters.HandleFunc("/u/{name:[[:alnum:]]+}/h/{xid:[[:alnum:]]+}", viewhonk)
@@ -1049,7 +1067,7 @@ }
 }
 
 var stmtHonkers, stmtDubbers, stmtOneXonk, stmtHonks, stmtUserHonks *sql.Stmt
-var stmtHonksForUser, stmtDeleteHonk, stmtSaveDub *sql.Stmt
+var stmtHonksForUser, stmtHonksForMe, stmtDeleteHonk, stmtSaveDub *sql.Stmt
 var stmtHonksByHonker, stmtSaveHonk, stmtFileData, stmtWhatAbout *sql.Stmt
 var stmtFindXonk, stmtSaveDonk, stmtFindFile, stmtSaveFile *sql.Stmt
 var stmtAddDoover, stmtGetDoovers, stmtLoadDoover, stmtZapDoover *sql.Stmt
@@ -1070,8 +1088,9 @@ stmtOneXonk = preparetodie(db, "select honkid, honks.userid, users.username, what, honker, xid, rid, dt, url, audience, noise, convoy from honks join users on honks.userid = users.userid where xid = ?")
 	stmtHonks = preparetodie(db, "select honkid, honks.userid, users.username, what, honker, xid, rid, dt, url, audience, noise, convoy from honks join users on honks.userid = users.userid where honker = '' order by honkid desc limit 50")
 	stmtUserHonks = preparetodie(db, "select honkid, honks.userid, username, what, honker, xid, rid, dt, url, audience, noise, convoy from honks join users on honks.userid = users.userid where honker = '' and username = ? order by honkid desc limit 50")
 	stmtHonksForUser = preparetodie(db, "select honkid, honks.userid, users.username, what, honker, xid, rid, dt, url, audience, noise, convoy from honks join users on honks.userid = users.userid where honks.userid = ? and dt > ? and convoy not in (select name from zonkers where userid = ? and wherefore = 'zonvoy' order by zonkerid desc limit 100) order by honkid desc limit 250")
+	stmtHonksForMe = preparetodie(db, "select honkid, honks.userid, users.username, what, honker, xid, rid, dt, url, audience, noise, convoy from honks join users on honks.userid = users.userid where honks.userid = ? and dt > ? and whofore = 1 and convoy not in (select name from zonkers where userid = ? and wherefore = 'zonvoy' order by zonkerid desc limit 100) order by honkid desc limit 250")
 	stmtHonksByHonker = preparetodie(db, "select honkid, honks.userid, users.username, what, honker, honks.xid, rid, dt, url, audience, noise, convoy from honks join users on honks.userid = users.userid join honkers on honkers.xid = honks.honker where honks.userid = ? and honkers.name = ? order by honkid desc limit 50")
-	stmtSaveHonk = preparetodie(db, "insert into honks (userid, what, honker, xid, rid, dt, url, audience, noise, convoy) values (?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?)")
+	stmtSaveHonk = preparetodie(db, "insert into honks (userid, what, honker, xid, rid, dt, url, audience, noise, convoy, whofore) values (?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?)")
 	stmtFileData = preparetodie(db, "select media, content from files where xid = ?")
 	stmtFindXonk = preparetodie(db, "select honkid from honks where userid = ? and xid = ?")
 	stmtSaveDonk = preparetodie(db, "insert into donks (honkid, fileid) values (?, ?)")

@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 
-create table honks (honkid integer primary key, userid integer, what text, honker text, xid text, rid text, dt text, url text, audience text, noise text, convoy text);
+create table honks (honkid integer primary key, userid integer, what text, honker text, xid text, rid text, dt text, url text, audience text, noise text, convoy text, whofore integer);
 create table donks (honkid integer, fileid integer);
 create table files(fileid integer primary key, xid text, name text, url text, media text, content blob);
 create table honkers (honkerid integer primary key, userid integer, name text, xid text, flavor text, pubkey text);

@@ -54,6 +54,12 @@ doordie(db, "create index idx_zonkersname on zonkers(name)")
 		doordie(db, "update config set value = 3 where key = 'dbversion'")
 		fallthrough
 	case 3:
+		doordie(db, "alter table honks add column whofore integer")
+		doordie(db, "update honks set whofore = 0")
+		doordie(db, "update honks set whofore = 1 where honkid in (select honkid from honks join users on honks.userid = users.userid where instr(audience, username) > 0)")
+		doordie(db, "update config set value = 4 where key = 'dbversion'")
+		fallthrough
+	case 4:
 	default:
 		log.Fatalf("can't upgrade unknown version %d", dbversion)
 	}

@@ -70,7 +70,7 @@
 var alreadyopendb *sql.DB
 var dbname = "honk.db"
 var stmtConfig *sql.Stmt
-var myVersion = 3
+var myVersion = 4
 
 func initdb() {
 	schema, err := ioutil.ReadFile("schema.sql")

@@ -12,14 +12,15 @@ </head>
 <body>
 <div class="header">
 <span><a href="/">honk</a></span>
-{{ if .ShowRSS }}
-<span><a href="/rss">rss</a></span>
-{{ end }}
 {{ if .UserInfo }}
+<span><a href="/atme">@me</a></span>
 <span><a href="/u/{{ .UserInfo.Username }}">{{ .UserInfo.Username }}</a></span>
 <span><a href="/honkers">honkers</a></span>
 <span><a href="/logout?CSRF={{ .LogoutCSRF }}">logout</a></span>
 {{ else }}
 <span><a href="/login">login</a></span>
+{{ end }}
+{{ if .ShowRSS }}
+<span><a href="/rss">rss</a></span>
 {{ end }}
 </div>